Sunday, December 1, 2024

Editor's Corner


By Mary E. Adair

November-December 2024

"May and October,
the best-smelling months?
I’ll make a case for December;
evergreen, frost, wood smoke, cinnamon."
— Lisa Kleypas


We got thru October while awaiting a November trip to be present for the wedding of one of your editor's Great-Grandsons, Trenton Wadford whose fiance Katy Brown is the daughter of his preacher. It was a beautiful wedding, plus getting to visit many family members and meet new ones.


This issue is fighting back when we attempt including pictures. Our webmaster is the one to solve such problems, and will have an answer. Meanwhile not all the pics chosen for this Holiday issue will be shown now. We have his interesting column "Mike's Place" and that is one you will enjoy reading.


Marilyn Carnell's book on early Civil War times is progressing and she includes a bit on some characters in her column "Sifodling Along." Thomas F. O'Neill, being a teacher, waxes eloquent on history of principal parties in "Introspective."


Mattie Lennon's column "Irish Eyes" includes excerpts from a few informational interviews with some authors in recent news, then remembers fondly one who is a steady favorite. Ara Parisien and Pauline Evanosky are not present this busy month.


Judith Kroll's column "On Trek" talks about how we should remember to be kind to ourselves, and why. "Armchair Genealogy" by columnist Melinda Cohenour is updating info as DNA is being found useful in numerous new areas. The column by the late Rod Cohenour's family members who shared his love of cooking, continues as a tribute to him. This issue has the necessary info for delicious Giblet Gravy.


John I. Blair's poem this month, "Minds" will set your mind to thinking. Walt Perryman's poems are "Attribute," "The Look," "Christmas Eve," and "As I Get Older." Bud Lemire's "Felines in A Cancer Hospital," "Hope in A Dark World," "The Light Beyond Book Shop" and "My MP3 Player" give one something to consider. Bruce Clifford also has four poems for us: "Before The Fall," "Puddle People," "Fallen Remains," and "Geography." Yours Truly is showing her main Christmas poem again this year, "Tiny Miracle."


We continue to rely on our co-founder and webmaster Mike Craner. With this eZine in its 27th year online, he is the one we trust for our status quo. Thank you, Mike, for all you accomplish. I shall continue to express my gratitude to my talented and creative friend. We continue to place our confidence in him as we have in the past.

See you in January for our first 2025 issue!


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Mike's Place

 


By Michael L. Craner

Yesterday was Veterans Day, 2024 and today I find myself remembering this time of year, over the years, starting late "last century" as kids like to say now.


Looking back, I see those years shaping me into who I am today, the good, the bad, and the ugly. Old bias, perhaps even some mild prejudice, I was forged in last century ideas and ideals.


As a proud American, I wanted to be a patriot, as a Christian I valued traditional family. As a man I strove for respect, self reliance, and strength, and leadership. As a youth, there was rebellion too.


As a result, I entered manhood naive, ignorant, strong willed, and energetic to explore life, freedom, and the world. It was all very confusing for me. Yet I dove in and went after it, I loved and lost. Made mistakes and tried to learn from them. Some took much longer though. Old lessons and ideas both helped and hindered, but time marches on, as it does.


Overall, looking back I realize that I had/have some disconnects. Sometimes they helped me get past a lot of things that seem to cripple some people, but also I now realize they crippled me.


I'd get so empathetic to others it would nearly break me, so I learned to block it, rather than reason or cope through it. Then I became as hard as a diamond and as course as raw granite and it left me callous and rigid.


Then, life, or God, or whatever decided it was my turn to be humbled. It was easy when it was just me, but when I started accepting responsibility for others and a family, that granite crumbled to gravel, and that diamond turned back into black coal. I took that piece of coal and made a fire, I took that gravel and mixed it with the sand of my soul, and the crude oil of my blood and forged a road... a life path, mapped from the blueprint of my upbringing... I built a family and started a new journey.


Without good maintenance though, potholes appeared, some I dodged, others I hit though and threw our car out of alignment, even got a few flat tires and bent rims. Yet everytime I break down, there seems to be a light just over the hill, maybe a garage... I just have to push on a bit further to get there, make repairs, and get back on the road.


Back in those early years, serving in the Army and a few years after, I spent several important holidays and events away from my new family, in my "forge." I spent time in war and war-torn lands, observing true heroism, love of family and community in the most trying of times for those people, making my own trial seem as trivial as "walking to school in the snow uphill, both ways, barefoot."


It's terribly hard to miss first Christmases, birthdays, anniversaries, living in tents in winter with bullets flying overhead, even knowing that in a few months I'd likely be home again. It was harder knowing that those we were helping WERE home, and for many, this WAS their best life, as short as it may be.


This is the forge that made my iron into steel. That made me fight later and make choices to support my own family and communities that often created my own potholes.


Do I have regrets? I used to say no, but I guess I do. Looking back I could have done a lot of things differently... made a better life for myself and my family... yet, if I had, would the family I have now be who they are today, because I'm sure I wouldn't be who I am. I can only hope they can see my mistakes and learn from them without experiencing them themselves.


Do I have scars? You bet, more than I can remember. At least as many psychological as physical, and I have lots of physical scars. Mostly from hard work and stupid mistakes. Some scars faded and left with time. Eventually, all scars fade to ashes and dust to dust.


A little bit of kindness, service, and understanding goes a tremendously long way, both for others and ourselves. You don't have to dedicate your life to feeding the homeless, charity, or pious service to your almighty. Just lend a hand or ride here or there. Pick up a bit of trash along your road.


We all eventually have a breakdown or two on this road we call life, a smile, a hand up, and paying forward help everyone. That's why I do what I do. Even though my condition may make me want to hide away in a dark, quiet room away from people, stepping out, offering a hand, a few words, connecting with others as hard as it's become has become something I value, as terrifying as it is, it helps me too.


In fact, looking back, from my experience in the military, writing, scouting, gun range, boys academy, Santa, and retail work, I have met some of the most broken, renewed, and positive people that have fallen and risen to become not only the best they could be but to inspire and mentor so many others.


I'll finish with this quote I once saw on a sign that has stuck with me for years, "The only difference between a stumbling block and a stepping stone is how you use them."


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Armchair Genealogy


By Melinda Cohenour

A General Update regarding Ancestry and Ancestry DNA

Many changes have occurred with Ancestry in the last few years. A brief recitation of Key Changes follows:

    * August 2020: Blackstone Investment Corp. Purchased Ancestry and Ancestry DNA for $4.7 billion:
    "Investment firm Blackstone announced on Wednesday that it was buying a majority stake in the direct-to-consumer genetics company Ancestry from its former equity holders for $4.7 billion.
    "The firm will take the reins from global firms including Silver Lake, GIC, and Spectrum Equity, but GIC will retain a significant minority stake in the company, according to a press release. Ancestry was last valued at roughly $3 billion in 2017, according to PitchBook, and had eyed an IPO in 2017 and 2019, when the personal genetics business was booming."
    * Concerns arise 2021 over possible publication or unintended use of DNA test results:


Although Blackstone asserts "No intention to permit sale, publication, or use of the millions of DNA test results, most financial analysts as well as DNA scientists and professors scoff. Full story may be seen at the link below.


Column: Why spend billions for Ancestry’s DNA data if you don’t plan to use it?
By David Lazarus, Columnist
April 13, 2021 6 AM PT


"Shirley Ruge has long been fascinated with exploring her family tree. At one time, that meant many hours spent combing through records at courthouses and libraries.


"For the last 20 years or so, the Indian Wells resident has focused her research on Ancestry (a.k.a. Ancestry.com), one of the leading sites for genealogical sleuthing and DNA analysis. The company says it has 18 million people in “the world’s largest consumer DNA network.”


“You find heroes in your past and you also find villains,” Ruge, 87, told me. “It’s fascinating.


“I’m one of six kids,” she said. “I want to know where we come from, and why we’re all so different.”


Lately, though, Ruge has had other questions on her mind.


Such as: Why was Utah-based Ancestry purchased in December by the New York investment firm Blackstone Group for $4.7 billion?


And: What does Blackstone plan to do with that treasure trove of genetic data, which is highly sought after by drug companies, insurance firms, employers and others?


Opinion: The risks of sharing your DNA with online companies aren’t a future concern. They’re here now


Oct. 18, 2023
Author Edward Humes DNA is solving cold cases everywhere. One true-crime writer thinks that’s a tricky path


Nov. 22, 2022
“I don’t believe for a second that Blackstone bought Ancestry simply because they love people,” Ruge said. “You don’t spend $4.7 billion unless you have a plan to make it back, and more.”


Blackstone says she and others needn’t worry.


“We invested in Ancestry because it is a clear leader in its industry with a digital subscription business that has continued to grow significantly,” said Matt Anderson, a spokesman for the investment firm with more than $600 billion in assets under management.


“Blackstone has not and will not access user DNA and family tree data, and we will not be sharing this data with our other companies,” he told me. “To be crystal clear, doing so was never part of our investment thesis — period.”


End of story? Perhaps not.


I reached out to a number of bioethicists to ask if they believed Ancestry users could rest easy knowing their genetic data will remain under wraps. Nearly every one of them scoffed at the idea.


"It’s naive to think Blackstone would spend almost $5 billion for an asset it has no plans to exploit, said Ellen W. Clayton, a professor of law and health policy at Vanderbilt University. “Why else would they buy it?” she asked.


..."But nearly every expert I spoke with cited the partnership announced in 2018 between Ancestry rival 23andMe and pharmaceutical giant GlaxoSmithKline.


"Glaxo purchased a $300-million stake in 23andMe, giving it access to the genetic data of the company’s 12 million users.


The genealogical site GEDmatch, which played a role in catching the Golden State Killer, was acquired in 2019 by San Diego’s Verogen, a company with links to crime labs.


“It’s important to understand that, at some point, the purpose of all these DNA companies is to monetize that data,” said Katherine Drabiak, an associate professor of public health at the University of South Florida.


“The entire business model is offering a service people want and amassing a huge amount of data,” she said. Ancestry’s new owner ignoring the value of its genetic database “would fly in the face of how these companies operate.” LAtims.combusiness


* Ancestry raised their subscription prices


When did Ancestry raise their prices?
February 1, 2022


"We're increasing our monthly subscription prices to help provide you with more content and new product features. Starting on February 1, 2022, the price of U.S monthly subscriptions to Ancestry.com for our existing customers will increase.Jan 2, 2022

Ancestry.com


We're increasing our monthly subscription prices to help provide you with more content and new product features."


* Ancestry released the largest DNA report, changing what was previously referred to as Ethnicity Estimate in what, to many, provided a picture of their "Ancestral Origins" vastly differing from prior reports:


AncestryDNA's 2024 update includes new features, a refreshed user experience, and more precise results:


New regions
AncestryDNA adds new regions based on advances in DNA science and more samples in their reference panel. This allows them to better distinguish between adjacent regions and break down larger regions into more detail.


New ethnic groups
AncestryDNA added 64 new ethnic groups from Africa, along with stories that provide cultural context.


New terms
AncestryDNA adopted new terms to describe different aspects of results, including:


Ancestral regions: Formerly known as "Ethnicity Estimate", these percentages show places where ancestors likely lived roughly 1,000 years ago.


Ancestral journeys: Formerly known as "Communities", this feature shows where relatives likely lived and moved in the past 300 years.


Subregions: Smaller, more specific areas within a region that provide added granularity.


Refreshed user experience
AncestryDNA made it easier to explore and understand origins and journeys.


AncestryDNA members receive updated regions free of charge. For 90 days after an update, members can download the prior version of their results.

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The ways in which long-time Ancestry members can expect change with this change in ownership are yet to be seen.


A recent lawsuit brought against Blackstone alleging it required Ancestry.com to disclose distinct individual identities of the DNA test results purchased was dismissed as being "without merit" on its face, no evidence of such claim discovered or disclosed as evidentiary material to the court.

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Guess we must stand by and see what our future brings.


My most recent "future" presented itself just today. An encounter I shall be addressing with our new Ancestry management in the coming days. We shall see if your author's unpleasant interaction today proves to be worthy of future discussion.


In the meantime, enjoy your own Armchair Genealogy.


Stay tuned, dear readers.


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Cooking with Rod's Family

                                      By Melinda Cohenour

The holidays are fast approaching. This year they bring an admixture of emotion. A year's end heralding many changes. A new home. A complete change in my lifestyle. Our first holiday season without Rod. Bittersweet.


Our grandson Adam has discovered he has not only an appreciation of cooking but a growing gift. He has exhibited his skill as a grillmaster, preparing some of the most delectable steaks you've ever tasted. His experimental flavors for corn on the cob are tantalizing as well.


Looking forward to the holidays, I suppose, Adam requested my recipe for Giblet Gravy. Just writing it down this evening has set my taste buds alight. It will be hard to wait for the first turkey dinner!


We are Cooking With Rod's Family, preparing dishes he would definitely appreciate. Hope you enjoy preparing them as well.


Bon appetit~


Ms Giblet Gravy


Ingredients:

    * giblets from inside poultry (usually a gizzard, heart, kidneys, liver) If desired you can purchase more chicken livers separately. Some really like more in their gravy. Rinse before use in this recipe.
    * neckbone
    * small onion
    * 2-3 stalks celery
    * Water
    * 2-3 tablespoons flour
    * 2 cans or 1 quart low or no sodium.chicken broth
    * 1/2 cup milk
    * 2 eggs if desired
    * black pepper


Instructions:

    1. Remove giblets and neck from cavity of poultry. Rinse giblets gently. Trim gristle from gizzard. If desired, slice gizzard and heart and add to a medium saucepan.. Lucky you if you also got the kidney. Slice it as well. Reserve and refrigerate liver until later as it takes less time to cook. Cover giblets and neckbone with water, at least 2 inches above the top.
    2. Simmer giblets and neckbone about 40 minutes to an hour. Add liver after cooking for 30 minutes. Over-cooking liver makes it become bitter but you do want it cooked through.

    A great deal of tasty meat may be salvaged from the neckbone. After permitting the neckbone to cool, I usually work cautiously using a sharp small paring knife and my fingers to remove the meat from the bone. (Make sure no bone sneaks into your bowl!)

    3. Add neck meat back to the saucepan. Add 1 small onion, diced. Add 2 - 3 stalks celery, destring and cut into small moons. Reserve the leafy top for later use. Cover with a quart of broth and place over medium high heat.
    4. Simmer slowly about 30 to 40 minutes permitting onion and celery to cook. Stir occasionally. Strain giblets, meat and vegetables carefully from liquid. Reserve and keep warm while preparing gravy. Increase heat and permit broth to begin to boil gently.
    5. Make a simple paste of equal parts flour and water. Whisk to ensure there are no lumps. Slowly add to boiling broth. Whisk constantly as gravy thickens to desired consistency. Add milk and continue to whisk until blended.
    6. Add back giblet, neck meat and vegetable mixture. Crack and break raw eggs in a separate bowl to make sure they're fresh and there are no pieces of shell. Once gravy has become hot again, drizzle eggs into gravy and stir while they cook, lacing your gravy with strands of egg. . Season to taste with black pepper. Serve in a warm bowl. Garnish with leafy celery tops.


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Irish Eyes



By Mattie Lennon

CUTLERY CULTURE. A LIFE AMONG THE DEAD AND POEMS.

Shane Gallagher grew up on a farm in Lacken, overlooking the Blessington Lakes in County Wicklow. He says, “There was always something broke that had to be made or fixed for machinery, I learnt a lot from my father and mother around the farm. Went then and served my time working on trucks.”


He was, and still is, a mechanic but now he has found his true calling. (Didn’t Francis Bacon mention, “Mechanical arts and merchandise?”)


Shane says “There was always bits of scrap lying around the farm yard so instead of getting rid of the scrap metals I tried my hand at welding and forging sculptures out of it , from tin to steel to copper, then to cutlery, such as flowers, angel's, , birds, candles holders just to name a few.”


JFK Said, “In free society art is not a weapon.” But you should see the “revolver” that he (Shane not JFK!) has fashioned from a socket, a spoon and a few other bits and pieces from the kitchen drawer.


He didn’t lick it off the ground. It’s in the genes. His grandfather Jack had “the best pair of hands in the parish” He comes from a long line of people who had an appreciation of the arts. His sister Leslie Murphy is a well-known and gifted illustrator and painter who featured at Dunlavin Festival of Arts and his mother “can turn her hand to anything”.


Shane has ideas to make more and more sculptures. He told me, “I enjoy making them; it keeps me from going mad at mechanics.” He sees it as a hobby and discusses it with the utmost modesty. Stephen Spender said that, “Art is born of humiliation” but it would be more accurate to say that Shane’s art is born of humility. He doesn’t ever blow his own trumpet, even if he has fashioned said instrument from the exhaust pipe of a 1959 Austin A 40.


I’m no Nostradamus but I’m predicting that you will hear a lot more about this man from Lacken who got no formal training and is now up there with the best in the west Wicklow arts scene . His work can be seen in the Blessington Tourist Office. And on Sunday 27th October a large collection of his works was displayed in his old primary school which is now the Lacken Community Centre. Shane’s Instagram account is; shane_gallagher_crafts.

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A LIFE AMONG THE DEAD


David McGowan is a man of many parts who has had, up to now, a chequered career. From working with the dead as a teenager when his father accidentally bought a hearse to witnessing a dead gang leader being shot in the head in Chicago. His A Life among the Dead is to all intents and purposes an autobiography.


The author is not critical by nature but he wasn’t impressed by the educational system in operation when he was in Primary School, “. . . there didn’t seem to be any purpose to some of the things we laboured over for hours on end. I recall being hit with the edge of a ruler by my first teacher. If a child didn’t have their homework done to her satisfaction, she would make them stand at the blackboard and say, ‘I am a dunce’ to the whole class.”


When a fellow student embalmer in Chicago who didn’t seem all that anxious about learning anything, told him later that he had been assigned to the funeral home to gain intelligence about mobsters, and was wearing a wire at all times, David felt rather naïve. On another occasion when a vehicle collided with the side of his hearse a paramedic who arrived promptly on the scene asked if he had anyone else with him “I innocently replied that I had one person in my vehicle. She panicked and asked how the other person was. I calmly replied that she was dead. She asked to see them, I presume in the hopes of of reviving them. She got very cross with me when she discovered that my passenger hadn’t died as a result of the accident.”


After one exhumation he discovered that the long held belief that a person’s hair continues to grow after death is not a myth.


This book is not all about embalming and the lingering smell of formaldehyde. He also gives vivid accounts of other aspects of his life. “Thousands flocked to Enniscrone for what was a very joyous occasion.” What were they waiting for? The arrival of a 48 metre long 767. And it arrived; but not by air. David McGowan brought it from Shannon Airport on the Atlantic ocean.


If you are sceptical about the existence of a paranormal the chapter headed Unexplained Happenings may change your mind. There are happenings that he doesn’t make any great claims about, he just suggests that it’s unlikely that they were coincidences. I feel that Liz Tuttle’s description of herself would fit David, “I’m quite a rational person, but I'm drawn to the irrational. I love coincidences, and I like to question that in fiction: 'is this random, or is there something working underneath?'


The author doesn’t force anyone to believe in another world but he had some strange experiences. One day his hearse broke down on a bridge over the river Moy as a large crowd of mourners walked behind it. It cut out and wouldn’t re-start. But a ”little push” got it off the bridge and it started.


He took it to the garage next day and , “They had no explanation for what had happened.” But weeks later a son of the deceased told him, “That his dad had often told him that he loved to look down at the river from the bridge to his favourite spot, the place where he had loved to go fishing in the river. He had often fished with his dad there in the past. “ But he had forgotten about his dead telling him, “that when he died, he wanted the hearse to stop in the middle of the bridge on his final journey.”


An A to Z of funeral undertaking and the director’s life story.


Don't miss it.

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Endurable Infinity


Tony Kitt is a poet from Dublin, Ireland. His family hails from Co. Mayo in the West of Ireland, as well as from Italy and Greece. He has worked as a researcher, a music critic, a literary translator, a creative writing tutor, and a magazine editor. His poetry titles include Endurable Infinity (University of Pittsburgh Press, USA, 2022), Sky Sailing (Salmon Poetry, Ireland, 2025; forthcoming), and A Quiet Life in Psychopatria (MadHat Press, USA, 2025; forthcoming). His chapbook called Further Through Time was published by Origami Poems Project (USA, 2022). His poems appear in multiple magazines, and anthologies, including Oxford Poetry, Poetry Ireland Review, The North, Cyphers, The Cafe Review, Plume, Matter, The Fortnightly Review, The Honest Ulsterman, The New Ulster, Under the Radar, etc. They have also been translated into Italian, Greek, Romanian, German, Ukrainian, Albanian, and Chinese. He edited the Contemporary Tangential Surrealist Poetry anthology (SurVision Books, 2023), as well as the anthology entitled Invasion: Ukrainian Poems about the War(SurVision Books, 2022), and was the winner of the Maria Edgeworth Poetry Prize.


His collection of 76 poems, Endurable Infinity published by University of Pittsburgh Press, asks us, in the words of, George Kalamaras, poet laureate emeritus of Indiana to, “ …undo ourselves in the reconstitution of the possible.”


The following is the first stanza of Tony’s poem, Music for the Virus;

Life in a glass box is as lengthy as its utensil.
Drumroll entry. Piano stairs,
The age of John cage. A vaccine
Descending into judicial transparency.

A feast of poetry for Christmas.

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And Joe Harrington’s Rambling House is still going strong after more than a quarter century.


Happy Christmas and I’ll see you next year.


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